{"id":2077,"date":"2013-04-04T21:28:45","date_gmt":"2013-04-04T18:28:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/?p=2077"},"modified":"2013-04-06T11:21:03","modified_gmt":"2013-04-06T08:21:03","slug":"unintentionally-rude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/2013\/04\/04\/unintentionally-rude","title":{"rendered":"Unintentionally rude?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel terrible!<\/p>\n<p>I went to buy a coffee grinder today and eventually had to ask a store clerk for help because I didn&#8217;t find them. I said I was looking for a specific one but since there were a couple of others available, he told me a little bit about them. At one point he used the word &#8220;user interface&#8221; describing the different knobs and dials on the appliances. I chuckled (because computers and things are near and dear to my heart and any nerd reference is delightful) and asked what OS they used. While I chuckled I actually was thinking &#8220;wow, what a clever use of vocabulary!&#8221; but later I thought I probably came across rude. I hope they thought nothing of it.<\/p>\n<p>Another time, when I was shopping for accessories at the Nokia Flagship, they had a &#8220;buy 3 get 1 free&#8221; deal and I was trying to decide which ones to get. The sales person suggested a cover for my Lumia 920. I said &#8220;tsk, tsk,&#8221; (god, I may&#8217;ve even shaken my finger&#8230;) &#8220;the phone is unbreakable, isn&#8217;t it?&#8221; I of course didn&#8217;t say it seriously (probably gave a big smile) but who knows what they thought.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m a malicious person. I&#8217;ve actually been told I&#8217;m one of the most sincerelly kind (as opposed to only superficially) people &#8212; sometimes to a fault. So, where does this snideness come from!? (A widely shared sense of humour at the work place and a couple of running jokes maybe; I constantly make fun of Apple without thinking.) <\/p>\n<p>How do I stop?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel terrible! I went to buy a coffee grinder today and eventually had to ask a store clerk for help because I didn&#8217;t find them. I said I was looking for a specific one but since there were a couple of others available, he told me a little bit about them. At one point [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2077","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-odd-people"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2077"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2082,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2077\/revisions\/2082"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2077"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2077"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.all-things-me.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2077"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}